The Importance of Self-Care
It’s been so long since I wrote here that I don’t even know where to start. I feel like I don’t know what to write–or what you might need to hear right now. So, I’ll just write and hope it flows with...
View ArticleWhen tradition no longer serves you
What do we do when tradition no longer serves us? When, as women, we find ourselves hampered by tradition and its teachings? These are the questions I’ve been thinking about lately. I drew the The...
View ArticleAging is beautiful–let’s create a new truth and erase those old stories
I grew up with Disney’s Snow White and Sleeping Beauty. The magical moment when the woodland creatures help Cinderella with the ball gown. I believed if I did the right things that I too might...
View ArticleWhat are you waiting for?
WARNING When I am an old woman I shall wear purple With a red hat which doesn’t go, and doesn’t suit me. And I shall spend my pension on brandy and summer gloves And satin sandals, and say we’ve no...
View ArticleAging, Menopause and Sexuality-It’s Not All Bad News
Aging and menopause make us targets for false advertising and fear tactics. Wouldn’t we be better off not listening and adopting a positive approach to these natural transitions? I’m sharing an article...
View ArticleSpeaking Up for Yourself-It’s Time
How comfortable are you speaking up for yourself? One of the challenges women face is feeling comfortable speaking up for what they want. It seems so simple but in reality it can be very difficult,...
View ArticleThoughts on how we fight ageism and fear-based marketing
A few days ago I posted this sentence on Facebook, “To give in to the anti-aging trends, to chase “youthful” is to deny the beautiful reality of who we have become.” There were some great comments and...
View ArticleThe Woman Who Refused to Disappear
As a woman closing in on age 65, I am supposedly invisible. How do I feel about that? Do I want to become invisible? Do I have a choice? The real question for me is how do I want to be seen? These are...
View Articlethoughts on turning 65: choices, options, finding joy
Starting in mid June I began a countdown to my 65th birthday by sharing observations, insights or other tidbits related to what is often considered a landmark age. I’ve been asked to share a summary...
View ArticleEmbracing our aging, scars and all
I am standing naked in front of the full length bathroom mirror looking at my scar. It is 9 inches long, starting just below that little hollow at the base of the neck, snaking its way down between...
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